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Mar 30, 20245 min read
5 reasons family members don't tell you they're estranging
Family estrangement is very difficult to accept. And can be even harder to come to terms with when we don't know the reason for the...
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Feb 3, 20245 min read
Living with a narcissistic mother
A relationship with a narcissistic person is always complex- when that narcissist is your mother, it become incredibly confusing....
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May 16, 20233 min read
How narcissistic parents manipulate their children using guilt
Feeling guilty is one of a Scapegoat child's default setting. Alongside shame, fear, and confusion, it's a pretty steady state of being...
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May 9, 20231 min read
Playing the Scapegoat in a Narcissistic family's story
When we are Scapegoats in a toxic family system, we have one role. That role is to be the person who takes the blame for anything that...
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May 5, 20232 min read
Supercharge your recovery from narcissistic abuse.... with gratitude
Yeah, I know, you've heard it before and seen all the cheesy posts on social media. But there is a reason why gratitude is touted by a...
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May 2, 20232 min read
What is a Scapegoat, anyway?
The Scapegoat Club, SGC, came about as I was working through my recovery from an abusive, toxic, highly narcissistic family system....
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Three Manipulative Tactics Toxic Parents Use to Control Their Children
The “time traveler parent" is one who manipulates the timeline of events to suit their narrative and avoid accountability.
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Feb 14 min read
The Fundamental Question We Don't Ask When People Estrange From Their Families
If you're a parent wondering how to reconnect with an estranged child, start by asking a simple yet powerful question.
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Jan 254 min read
Navigating Sibling Rivalry Over Inheritance: How to Protect Yourself and Find Peace
Dealing with family conflict over inheritance can be complicated. It’s crucial to approach the situation with awareness and independence.
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